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The New You 144 topics

The New You
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Bryant McGill quote - Letting go.
I saw this today and it really resonated with me. I though I'd share with my wiki friends...

"Everyone goes through hell, but not everyone stays t ...
14 May 17, by Bubblegum11
Latest 23 Aug 25 by Curious53
Replies:5
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Latest by Curious53
23 Aug 25
10 unexpected benefits of living separately
Just waiting on my consent order and decree absolute, just beginning to appreciate the little things...

1. My car keys are exactly where I left them.
14 Jun 17, by SallyMac
Latest 07 Mar 21 by MOF
Replies:14
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Latest by MOF
07 Mar 21
High Risk
Hi folks,

Making my way through this horrible divorce process and have been on a few dates after separation. Nothing serious yet but does anyone else f ...
29 Jul 20, by Vigorate
Latest 30 Jul 20 by Buster007
Replies:1
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Latest by Buster007
30 Jul 20
Not quite as new as I thought I was.
I've been on my own two and a half years now, built a new and happy life and felt I was healing slowly.
Trapped in a marriage I had slowly faded into a shad ...
21 Jul 19, by Strawberrypimms
Latest 21 Jul 19 by Strawberrypimms
Replies:2
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Latest by Strawberrypimms
21 Jul 19
Narcissist?
I am enjoying reminding myself of the old me (things I liked doing, were good at) and creating a new me.

We have both moved on. He got a new girlfrien ...
17 Jun 18, by Donut99
Latest 17 Jun 18 by Under60
Replies:1
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Latest by Under60
17 Jun 18
Happy Christmas. All the best in 2018
I would just like to wish everyone going through this hell all the best for the next lot of "special" days. I hate all these family times as it make m ...
22 Dec 17, by itsbeenalongtime
Latest 28 Dec 17 by polar
Replies:2
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Latest by polar
28 Dec 17
Half Way To Dating
This is on my blog, but would appreciate more comments.
Is there a virtual group I can join?
Could this be a wiki service?

I know I have not ...
26 Jan 13, by Onmyway
Latest 02 Sep 17 by edithcraig
Replies:14
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Latest by edithcraig
02 Sep 17
Who Am I Any More?
I asked myself this question over and over again. I didn't know the answer, I was so self-critical, full of self-blame and lacking confidence that to think of m ...
29 Nov 16, by kazz5835
Latest 09 Aug 17 by itsbeenalongtime
Replies:3
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Latest by itsbeenalongtime
09 Aug 17
I can finally say it....''I''M OVER HIM!!!''
I''ve been dying to say these words for soooo long. I have made it my mission from day one of my separation that HE would NOT ruin the rest of my life. My divor ...
28 Sep 14, by Patsy39
Latest 25 Nov 16 by angie67
Replies:10
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Latest by angie67
25 Nov 16
New Career Direction
Hi all

Does anyone have any ideas for someone was is 50 to retrain or study in order to pursue a new career/direction as I have been told I will have t ...
04 Aug 16, by Jalisia
Latest 05 Aug 16 by Jalisia
Replies:11
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Latest by Jalisia
05 Aug 16
Food for Thought
Hi wiki friends

Here is some food for thought .

" it''s just like how can it be over? How do you just not care anymore? How is it so ...
25 Apr 16, by Declan
Latest 25 Apr 16 by polar
Replies:3
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Latest by polar
25 Apr 16
Stuck in Transition?
After getting divorced I was faced with analysis paralysis..it''s a whole new world but which way do I turn? I had to take care of 2 kids 80% of the time, jump ...
24 Aug 15, by lrobbins
Latest 25 Aug 15 by AngieP
Replies:3
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Latest by AngieP
25 Aug 15
Our Pasts
Just read a post on here from member saying they thought lingering emotions were more to do with their past than divorce. Didn''t want to hijack post hence thi ...
17 May 15, by AngieP
Latest 17 May 15 by AngieP
Replies:5
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Latest by AngieP
17 May 15
New Year New Me
Hello again. I haven''t been on for quite a while. Riding the storm I guess. Quite a lot has happened but I feel for the better. Have been looking forward t ...
04 Jan 15, by Columbo
Latest 08 Jan 15 by Columbo
Replies:6
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Latest by Columbo
08 Jan 15
Happy none wedding anniversary
Well today (21st) should have been my 12th wedding anniversary instead I am divorced and off to see the pantomime with my little one as I thought this was a fi ...
21 Dec 14, by driven40
Latest 22 Dec 14 by sun flower
Replies:12
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Latest by sun flower
22 Dec 14
Feeling fed up
Lately I feel fed up....I juggle everything and do a bloody good job.I work 5 days a week and look after my son making sure his school work is good and hits his ...
19 Jul 14, by blonde cazza
Latest 11 Nov 14 by Home alone feeling better
Replies:10
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Latest by Home alone feeling better
11 Nov 14
I feel like I am doing this backwards...?
After reading here on wikivorce for a while...all the stories, good and bad...I cannot seem to find a common ground with my particular situation. So have mental ...
17 Sep 14, by StillShining
Latest 09 Nov 14 by WinterBaby
Replies:9
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Latest by WinterBaby
09 Nov 14
Trying to look ahead.
Pleasantly, and I hope not presumptively, as it is still very early days for me, I find myself with a tiny amount of what I''ll call '' spare emotional capacity ...
06 Oct 14, by ExiledDad
Latest 14 Oct 14 by dukey
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Latest by dukey
14 Oct 14
Do I need to change?Help on this one guys......
We are all here for one reason???
Our relationships messed up,whichever way whoever was to blame,it messed up...
So in turn we become differant people t ...
15 Jun 14, by afonleas
Latest 30 Jun 14 by Marshy_
Replies:14
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Latest by Marshy_
30 Jun 14
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15 Jun 14, by Purrfect
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8 months on - update
Just in case you don''t remember me, here''s a recap.

I first came on wiki 8 months ago because after 13 years of marriage I found out my STBX had been ...
02 May 14, by samz
Latest 02 May 14 by Declan
Replies:2
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Latest by Declan
02 May 14
Stressed because I got asked out
I divorced my ex over 2 years ago after a being married for over 20 years I was his second wife and was always made to feel by his religious close family I and ...
10 Apr 14, by sulkypants
Latest 26 Apr 14 by Sky5
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Latest by Sky5
26 Apr 14
Stressed because I got asked out
I divorced my ex over 2 years ago after a being married for over 20 years I was his second wife and was always made to feel by his religious close family I and ...
10 Apr 14, by sulkypants
Latest 16 Apr 14 by sulkypants
Replies:14
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Latest by sulkypants
16 Apr 14
Get back your power
It''s a phrase I hear a lot lately. Just read it in a post from PG and friends have said the same to me.

But what does it mean? And how do you do it? ...
11 Apr 14, by elizadoolittle
Latest 15 Apr 14 by Vastra1
Replies:14
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Latest by Vastra1
15 Apr 14
Unexpected emotions.
Just taken great nosedive on emotional roller coaster today. There was I thinking had emotions under control now - went to friends party this afternoon - feeli ...
06 Apr 14, by AngieP
Latest 07 Apr 14 by driven40
Replies:8
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Latest by driven40
07 Apr 14
Revelations and facing up to things.
Good morning you wonderful wiki''s,

I have not posted regarding myself for a while now,but on this one I feel the need to share,it could possibly help ...
24 Feb 14, by afonleas
Latest 24 Feb 14 by Declan
Replies:2
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Latest by Declan
24 Feb 14
Dating
There have been a few interesting dating posts over the last couple of weeks. I happened to pick up the Metro on the bus this morning and saw this article on a ...
06 Feb 14, by u6c00
Replies:0
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New year resolutions
New year, new start, what resolutions are people making ?
I have 2 to start with. , stop wanting to know what Stbx is up to with his new girlfriend and sto ...
01 Jan 14, by xargle
Latest 05 Feb 14 by xargle
Replies:7
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Latest by xargle
05 Feb 14
Getting a life
I''m trying to think myself into the future a little and think about life when I finally get myself free.

I''ve spent the last 2 years trying to save m ...
12 Jan 14, by mum26
Latest 12 Jan 14 by driven40
Replies:4
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Latest by driven40
12 Jan 14
The next stage
Hello all, thought i would create a new post, as i am no longer desperately unhappy and shocked!.
It''s only 4 weeks since all of this started, and so much ...
27 Jan 13, by cat13
Latest 11 Jan 14 by angie157
Replies:9
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Latest by angie157
11 Jan 14
Self confidence
I wonder if the wiki folk out there could give me some advice on how I can boost myself confidence. Being cheated on by my husband really does knock it and a ...
05 Oct 13, by nicwin
Latest 06 Oct 13 by Shoegirl
Replies:4
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Latest by Shoegirl
06 Oct 13
just a update
still very very happy and very much still in love with john will be 2yrs in feb for us hopefully going abroad to marry john 2014. That awful time is way way be ...
06 Sep 13, by caz2011
Latest 10 Sep 13 by caz2011
Replies:4
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Latest by caz2011
10 Sep 13
LONG OVERDUE UPDATE
Hi all

I''ve not been on here for ages due to the stresses and strains of selling and buying houses. I''m finally in my new home and I love it. If anyo ...
11 Jun 13, by Action
Latest 19 Aug 13 by Action
Replies:9
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Latest by Action
19 Aug 13
the long and winding road
I havent actually seen my ex for ....mmmmm lets think.....gotta be 3 1/2 years!
Last night I went to pick my grandson up from my daughters,he was due to pop ...
07 Aug 13, by Boo2u21964
Latest 07 Aug 13 by Marshy_
Replies:2
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Latest by Marshy_
07 Aug 13
first holiday without stbx
Hi,

I am going on holiday this week with some of my family, this will be the first holiday without my stbx. I am ok but not ok at the same time, if tha ...
15 Jul 13, by littlegreen
Latest 30 Jul 13 by ljdh
Replies:18
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Latest by ljdh
30 Jul 13
Smiling or madness
Trying to lift myself from the pit of despair I have tried smiling, whenever I feel down I put on a silly smile, I work for myself on a farm so it doesn''t matt ...
23 Jul 13, by sturmer
Latest 23 Jul 13 by afonleas
Replies:2
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Latest by afonleas
23 Jul 13
meeting new people
Just spent an hour salting the road outside my house, met three new people, had a nice chat and cleared the road. Everybody wins
14 Jan 13, by newleaf
Latest 16 Jul 13 by polar
Replies:22
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Latest by polar
16 Jul 13
Blog
If anybody is interested in reading my blog on starting a new life in HK pls pm me. Abs x ...
10 Jul 13, by absolution
Latest 10 Jul 13 by rubytuesday
Replies:1
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Latest by rubytuesday
10 Jul 13
just a thought
I saw this on facebook and thought i''d share it

Offering compassion to those who have harmed or disappointed you does not mean being a victim. The dif ...
03 Jul 13, by nicwin
Replies:0
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"I finally feel that I have come to the end"
Hi folks,

It is almost 5 years since I joined Wiki and began a post with the same title.

At the time the site was in its infancy and was deali ...
30 May 13, by thomoswt
Latest 01 Jun 13 by freeeee
Replies:4
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Latest by freeeee
01 Jun 13

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