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Financial Clean Break from Abusive Wife Hello everyone,I'm new to the forum and wanted to introduce myself and share my situation. I'm seeking advice on obtaining a financial clean break following a s ... 21 Mar 25, by Jamo	Replies:0 :568
Need advice -what should I do? Dear Forum Members,I (46 years) have been in an abusive marriage with a narcissistic wife (46) for the past 20 years. We have two children, a boy and a girl, bo ... 25 Feb 25, by RationalMan Latest 28 Feb 25 by RationalMan	Replies:6 :566	Latest by RationalMan 28 Feb 25
Questions following form E submission Hi, I am new here. I have been seperated for a year following a long period of problems. I have been in a long term marriage. The matter is now in the han ... 31 Oct 24, by Astra pad Latest 31 Oct 24 by WYSPECIAL	Replies:1 :497	Latest by WYSPECIAL 31 Oct 24
Hi there Just wanted to say hello I'm new here and representing myself. I'm ... 01 Sep 24, by Eireney Latest 01 Sep 24 by WYSPECIAL	Replies:1 :286	Latest by WYSPECIAL 01 Sep 24
People are who people are Hello everyone! At the age of 59 (nearly 60!) and having been married for almost 34 years, I have finally concluded that ‘people are who people are’. Pe ... 25 Jul 24, by OldBailey Latest 11 Aug 24 by EMC3419	Replies:3 :440	Latest by EMC3419 11 Aug 24
Hello - Divorced but still have problems Hello - I am new to this site and would really welcome some advice. I have been divorced some 20 years and part of my consent order was to have the house tr ... 08 Aug 24, by Suejlyn Latest 10 Aug 24 by Suejlyn	Replies:2 :338	Latest by Suejlyn 10 Aug 24
Seek help and advice desperately Dear all !! I desperately seek some help on my case as am not sure what to do or rather what will happen next and am quite anxious. My wife applied for divorc ... 17 Jul 24, by sandeeppatro Latest 21 Jul 24 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :319	Latest by hadenoughnow 21 Jul 24
Schedule of Deficiencies Hello My husband, who knew divorce was on the cards for us back in 2017 is hiding money and assets and will not disclose certain bank accounts and provide c ... 15 Jul 23, by Phoenix8152 Latest 09 Jun 24 by Phoenix8152	Replies:4 :1858	Latest by Phoenix8152 09 Jun 24
Lost in the Process Hi My spouse asked me to leave the marital home in October 23, which I did. She is not interested in a reconcilliation but also not doing anything regarding ... 29 Apr 24, by Robuk1964 Latest 04 May 24 by hadenoughnow	Replies:3 :413	Latest by hadenoughnow 04 May 24
divorcing a drug addict Hi all, my wife started divorce proceedings against me back in 2021, but after her boyfriend dumped her I believe she stopped everything (despite the fact she d ... 16 Apr 24, by Pizzagate Latest 29 Apr 24 by Pizzagate	Replies:6 :480	Latest by Pizzagate 29 Apr 24
It's a forum I hoped to avoid! - Clean Break advice Never thought it would come to this after many years of marriage, but would like to know where I stand with a 'clean break' fair agreement, if anyone could give ... 27 Feb 24, by Kencom Latest 27 Feb 24 by Kencom	Replies:2 :545	Latest by Kencom 27 Feb 24
Step by step Hi all,Firstly, what a GREAT website!I was married/in a relationship for 11 years in total.A mutual ending.One child who is shared 50:50.We sold our marriage ho ... 13 Feb 24, by anonymous_normal_feet Latest 20 Feb 24 by anonymous_normal_feet	Replies:2 :626	Latest by anonymous_normal_feet 20 Feb 24
Going through a separation Hello, my wife and I have decided to end our relationship. She has made it clear that she doesn’t want to be with me anymore, even without any proper explana ... 05 Feb 24, by wushuguan	Replies:0 :376
Clean break agreement Hi. I've been married since 2007. My wife and i seperated at the start of 2020. We have a 13 yr old daughter. Im 58, shes 57 I'm now renting and she is ... 16 Nov 23, by kitchen man Latest 03 Dec 23 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :571	Latest by hadenoughnow 03 Dec 23
Divorcing … non compliant ex husband Hello, I am at the end of my rope. Long story short, my ex husband (soon to be ex husband) had a secret family which I had no idea about for two years. ... 21 Nov 23, by Soleil89 Latest 02 Dec 23 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :549	Latest by hadenoughnow 02 Dec 23
What happens now! My husband left me and we have been separated for 9 months. He moved back in to his mum house and I stayed in the family home with our children, 1 child is unde ... 11 Nov 23, by C7714601 Latest 16 Nov 23 by C7714601	Replies:6 :532	Latest by C7714601 16 Nov 23
In Process of Divorce HI all, new here, so a quick background on my situation. Separated from ex beginning of March 23, after " No one wants you here" thrown at me ... 10 Nov 23, by ChangingmaN Latest 11 Nov 23 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :407	Latest by hadenoughnow 11 Nov 23
Proving emotional abuse Hi all, I'm a Dad of two boys (7 and 4) and have been in a horrible relationship with their mum, my wife, since it began. I feel I've been the victim of emo ... 27 Oct 23, by GeorgeBayly	Replies:0 :626
Hi all. Wife wants to seperate. Hi, Joined website as it looks the best for my needs. Wife told me a few days ago that she wants me to move out. She has suggested she may tak ... 30 Apr 13, by dynaclive Latest 21 Oct 23 by WYSPECIAL 1 2 3 ... 11	Replies:70 :5809	Latest by WYSPECIAL 21 Oct 23
Unsigned Form E from ex's solicitors Exe has solicitor I don't , first hearing end of Oct. I had to email them on the final day to ask if they intended to exchange , they did 20 minutes before ... 26 Sep 23, by Hesatwatttwat Latest 28 Sep 23 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :498	Latest by hadenoughnow 28 Sep 23
?? Been going through a divorce for a ridiculous 8 years! ... 21 Sep 23, by Vickers Latest 22 Sep 23 by .Charles	Replies:1 :507	Latest by .Charles 22 Sep 23
Property Hi all, I am Roy I was divorced in 2016, since then I have been accused of breaking many court orders , all completely wrong. My daughter is just abou ... 28 Aug 23, by Roy123 Latest 04 Sep 23 by Roy123	Replies:2 :552	Latest by Roy123 04 Sep 23
My THREE year divorce Hello, I'm FRED! I had an affair! And believe me I regret it for many reasons. Sadly, I still love my wife. Our divorce has ... 07 Aug 23, by divorcee_1972	Replies:0 :407
Mesher & valuations Hi, my ex is pushing for a sale on our family home. I’m dead set against this and the disruption it would bring to my son’s first year at secondary school. ... 20 Jul 23, by Alzarius Latest 21 Jul 23 by Alzarius	Replies:2 :383	Latest by Alzarius 21 Jul 23
Heartbroken My husband of 35 years walked out on me with no warning six weeks ago, he said he'd started a relationship with a work colleague 15 years younger. Hes moved to ... 15 Jul 23, by TEON Latest 16 Jul 23 by SarahJaneSladen	Replies:2 :517	Latest by SarahJaneSladen 16 Jul 23
Divorce Hi There Im going through the divorce process we’re not at the consent order state yet been married nearly 23 years it ... 09 Jul 23, by RachAnn Latest 09 Jul 23 by hadenoughnow	Replies:3 :384	Latest by hadenoughnow 09 Jul 23
Hello - introduction and advice request Hello I would really like advice and thoughts on my mediator's proposals. The facts are: a) married for 30 years b) I am 57 husband is 55< ... 03 Jun 23, by Sofia66 Latest 26 Jun 23 by hadenoughnow 1 2	Replies:7 :1356	Latest by hadenoughnow 26 Jun 23
Incorrect living address Hello, I am wondering if anyone can advise. while completing the online divorce I noticed that the address given for other part was not the address ... 09 Jun 23, by Jesss Latest 14 Jun 23 by Rickoshea	Replies:6 :799	Latest by Rickoshea 14 Jun 23
Back on here Hello again. Chatsworth hereI'm on my mobile and don't know how to direct message people who helped me in here before like rubytuesday and michum and any ot ... 16 Feb 23, by chatsworth08 Latest 12 Jun 23 by chatsworth08	Replies:6 :1677	Latest by chatsworth08 12 Jun 23
New to the forum Hello. I've just joined this forum today. My husband has moved out for the umpteenth time in our 45 year marriage. His statements are always the same that h ... 29 May 23, by 5KWalker Latest 05 Jun 23 by hadenoughnow	Replies:2 :438	Latest by hadenoughnow 05 Jun 23
Hello - introduction and advice request Hello I would really like advice and thoughts on my mediator's proposals. The facts are: a) married for 30 years b) I am 57 husband is 5 ... 03 Jun 23, by Sofia66	Replies:0 :332
New to the forum Hello. I've just joined this forum today. My husband has moved out for the umpteenth time in our 45 year message. His statements are always the same that he ... 29 May 23, by 5KWalker	Replies:0 :337
FDR Hi My partner has lied on his Form E and missed out some accounts he has. He has given away property and large sums of money to his adult children from a pr ... 27 May 23, by Phoenix8152	Replies:0 :402
Divorce - financial order Hello, I’m Chris, totally new to all this so here goes. My wife and I separated just over 12 months ago. She has started divorce proceedings th ... 13 Apr 23, by ChrisP1969! Latest 14 Apr 23 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :692	Latest by hadenoughnow 14 Apr 23
Not sure where I stand Hi , found myself in this very unfamiliar but very related place .In short: Husband asked for divorce,( with kids 13/15/18) then said he didn’t want divorce . ... 11 Apr 23, by Maycat Latest 14 Apr 23 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :416	Latest by hadenoughnow 14 Apr 23
Divorce - financial order Hello, I’m Chris, totally new to all this so here goes. My wife and I separated just over 12 months ago. She has started divorce proceedings thro ... 13 Apr 23, by ChrisP1969! Latest 14 Apr 23 by .Charles	Replies:3 :550	Latest by .Charles 14 Apr 23
Children too old for a Mesher Hi, I’ve just applied for a divorce and not sure how to sort out the house issue. It’s an amicable spilt and our kids are over 18 and going to unive ... 09 Apr 23, by Redsun Latest 10 Apr 23 by WYSPECIAL	Replies:1 :449	Latest by WYSPECIAL 10 Apr 23
Hi and thank you Hi from me, and thank you for the website as didn't know there is so many helpful people going through similar problems ... 20 Mar 23, by Stee4n	Replies:0 :349
I'm doing it without spending a penny Hello everyone. I'm divorcing someone who was controlling towards me. I never wanted to marry them and am left dealing with the fall out of a court c ... 08 Mar 23, by dontbelieveinmarriage Latest 16 Mar 23 by dontbelieveinmarriage	Replies:3 :523	Latest by dontbelieveinmarriage 16 Mar 23
new here Hi, I am going though a nightmare divorce and seeing another side to my wife. Solicitors have become obstructive causing delays all the way th ... 15 Mar 23, by justice_will_prevail	Replies:0 :572

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